Kim and I get into a fight in front of the kids, but, we turn this high-stress situation into a wonderful teaching moment that helps Juniper learn how to positively resolve conflicts.
Today is an incredibly personal episode. As a kid, everyday, my mom and dad would fight, they would just straight up yell at each other for the same reasons on repeat: Why do you always turn down the air conditioning? Why aren’t you out there putting in more hours at work? And of course, they fought about money. We never, ever had enough money.
In this episode, we explore a fight that Kim and I had recently. But the focus isn’t on the fight itself; rather, the focus is on what we do after the fight has happened and how we combine techniques taught in several books to rewind the argument that happened, explain and identify the emotions that were felt, give tools to cope with these big emotions, and close the loop by apologizing to each other in front of the kids.
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